I'm not saying Tin doesn't deserve to be adopted (It would be stupid) what I'm saying is choosing one over his OWN it's LOW and repulsive, maybe he could have adopted BOTH!
You obviously have issues with this whole thing....and are just uninformed to the facts about custody and adoption. First of all, Goran need not adopt his biological child. He could simply sue for visitation or partial custody if he chose to. I doubt if her biological mother would be willing to allow that...especially now.
I also think that the idiotic things you are saying are just a serious attempt to create anonmosity and discontent. Well you have suceeded. Now be on your way to stir things up in some other cess pool. TDWD isn't party to your program.
I guess we can say good by to any kind of a Croatian episode as well. With this kind of press, I don't think going home for a shoot would hardly be possible.
Oh I'm so ofended I'm so sorry, I'm so stupid bla bla bla blegh!NOT!
I'm heartless? I'm cold? Oh, ok what about the father who decides NOT to give his name to his own flesh and blood? and all the others alike him who are around the globe?? What about the man who curses the mother of his REAL CHILD ?? What about the woman who takles a leash and walks with her husband telling him to hate his own flesh and Blood? ( I mean if things were just as Mirela has put it, than it seems GV was going to take care of his daughter till his wife got in the middle and decided he wasn't going to love this child) What about the man and woman who call this child a CREATURE?? I'm cruel for stating that a child is NOT beautiful and bla bla bla? NO I'm HONEST and I stand up for my opinion! I mean Maggie If I'm not mistaken you yourself called TIN scary a while ago, but you'll never confess it cauze you're just not that kind of person, now are you? If you think Tin is so cute and adorable, it's your opinion, mine is diffrent DEAL with it! RESPECT IT.
Yes I think GV should have adopted HIS REAL CHILD, want to know WHY? Here's WHY : Because HE KNEW about this pregnancy from the very start, he knew there was already a child and he could pretty dam well care for her intead of looking for opne. I know there are a lot of children in orphanages, and on the streets in Brasil, but he had a child ON THE WAY and he is the father. I bet you all do not think of how confused this girl will be when she grows up. She WILL ASK about her father her mother will tell her its a well known actor with A LOT of money who loves someone else's child but NOT HIS OWN. Now try this in the head of a 8 year old (let's say) Pretty dam confusing hum ??!! Here will be her following question "Daddy doesn't love me? But daddy loves this other kid??!!" Take a 8 year old at home and try this scene. Try answering this question to this child. because if you can bring yourself to answer this defending the other child and the father than you're the cold hearted ones and not me. I'm not saying Tin doesn't deserve to be adopted (It would be stupid) what I'm saying is choosing one over his OWN it's LOW and repulsive, maybe he could have adopted BOTH!
I'm done, this is a circus show, honestly . It's pathetic!
Sorry, but I laughing about wat you wrote... come on... GORA DOESN"T EVEN KNOW IF THIS BABY IS HIS... AND WE DON'T KNOW ANYTHING...
You're saying that Lana is his daughter... well, just because you want to be... it's ok to protect ( want to ) the mother of this child, but only the paternity test will say... and if it is negative ? What you're going to say... that it is wrong ? Come on...
About Tin being adopted, like I said... it won't make Goran or Ivana stop loving him and treat him as his own... love is what bold people together, even if their adopted or not...
I think you're just saying about a confusion in a 8 year old head ? Well, explain to her why her father isn't there and I want to see tthe mother telling her why... because she put a process on him... it will be her fault too, not only his ( the father )
And, last...( I'm sure that Maggie don't need me to defende her), but she didn't say that Tin was scary... she said that he looked scary ( of the camera... )...
PS:This is what Goran said ( yeah, I discovered that I was wrong about creature ): " I cannot see a child who will be constantly pumped up against me and my family. One day when she grows up, she can freely come to me for a talk. And if she grows up into a decent creature, I don't see reason for us not to be on good terms " ...
Last Edit: Jul 21, 2007 9:59:59 GMT 10 by daniella
Post by rorygilmore on Jul 21, 2007 19:00:49 GMT 10
I'm sorry I haven't been here earlier to stop all this mess. From now on, I'm going to ask to think, and think deeply before posting anything on this delicate matter; think before judging; put in the shoes of all the ones involved in this sad issue and furthermore, on the people who has gone or is going through the same situation, because you could be the next one involved in a similar problem.
This thread is closed. If you want to post more news on the matter, you're free to do it in a NEW THREAD and you're also free to discuss them BUT in a mature, centered way, be careful not to hurt suceptibilities, otherwise, I'll be forced to close and remove threads and posts …and use my Patronus Charm against the naughty people. (...and believe me, you're not going to like it) Thanks.